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NewBuilt for Nigerian weddings

Plan the owambe.
Skip the wahala.

From the proposal to the honeymoon, Soyayya keeps every ceremony in one calm plan — budgets in naira, guest lists by family, and vendors you can actually trust.

  • Free to start
  • No card needed
  • Every ceremony, one account
ProposalIntroductionCourt weddingTraditional weddingWhite weddingHoneymoon
Before the big day

It starts with the ask

Planning to propose? Plan it in secret — the ring, the moment, a hidden photographer and the friends in on it. When they say yes, Soyayya walks you both through the news, the introduction and what comes next.

  • Secret mode. Nothing shows up for your partner — reminders arrive as "Work stuff".
  • Family first. Asking for blessings, then planning the introduction — with the list their family asks for.
  • Then the weddings. Pick your ceremonies and get a realistic budget before you book a thing.
  • And the honeymoon. Places you can actually afford — with visa rules for Nigerian passports and a fund guests can chip into.
Secret mode is on
The ask
104days to go
Sun 14 Feb · Tarkwa Bay at sunset
  • Done: Ask her family for their blessing
  • Done: Ring · solitaire, yellow gold
  • To do: Book a hidden photographer
  • To do: Brief Seun to keep her busy
She said yes
Next: the introduction
  • Done: Kola nuts
  • Done: Fabric for her mother
  • To do: Tubers of yam
One wedding, many parties

Every ceremony gets its own plan.

Most planners assume one big day. Yours has a few. Each ceremony gets its own budget, guests, checklist and floorplan — and Soyayya rolls it all up so you see the full picture.

Traditional wedding40 days to go
Saturday, 12 December
The Glasshouse, Ikoyi · Lagos
Budget
₦600k
of ₦3.75m spent
Guests
186
of 240 coming
Checklist
18
of 26 tasks done
Up next
Collect aso-ebi measurements
Fri, 6 Nov
All ceremonies₦2.66m of ₦7.75m spent408 guests coming
Everything in one place

All the moving parts. None of the chaos.

Each tool shows you what matters now and tucks the rest away until you need it.

Checklist

A checklist that knows what's next.

Tasks arrive grouped by month with deadlines on your calendar — not a 200-item wall on day one.

November2 of 4 done
  • Done: Book the venue
  • Done: Shortlist photographers
  • Collect aso-ebi measurements6 Nov
  • Send invitations21 Nov
December · 9 tasksShow ↓
Budget

Budgets in naira, per ceremony.

See what's spent, what's left and where it went — for each event and all of them together.

₦5.09m
left of ₦7.75m across 3 ceremonies
AttirePhoto & videoVenueCatering
Guests & check-in

From the RSVP to the front door.

Group guests by family and track every RSVP. Everyone who says yes gets a QR pass, so ushers can scan them in and you see who’s arrived.

Trad check-in is live
128of 186 arrived
Chief Emeka Okoro
Scanned at the main gate
14:32
Hajiya Aisha Bello
Pass K7M-4PX
Not yet
Floorplan & seating

Seat everyone, drag by drag.

Lay out tables, stage and dance floor, then drop guests onto their seats. Or have your planner or decorator design it and send it over for you to review.

Your decorator sent a new layoutPreview
Moodboard

A moodboard everyone can add to.

An open canvas for photos, videos, links and notes. Bring in your decorator, planner or friends to comment, and let AI suggest ideas as you go.

décor
florals
Less gold, more emerald?
Chioma
Try candlelit table runners
Invitations, website & gifts

Invite them, host them, let them gift.

Describe your invitation and refine it in a chat. Then publish a wedding website with RSVPs, aso-ebi orders and a gifts page for your wishlist, bank details or Paystack and Stripe links.

Together with their familiesTunde & AdannaSat 12 Dec · Ikoyi
Decorations fund41%
₦620k of ₦1.5m raised
GTBank · Tunde Balogun
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Copy
Pay with Paystack
Messages

Every conversation in its own room.

Chat with vendors one-on-one, and start focus groups for the groomsmen, the bachelor party or the family committee. You invite people, and you decide who stays.

  • Tunde’s groomsmen
    Seyi: Still on for Saturday’s fitting?
    3
  • Family committee
    Mama Tunde: God bless you both
  • Jide Ojo Photography
    Shot list received, thank you!
Moments

Every moment, from every phone.

Guests capture photos in the Soyayya app, from the proposal to the last dance. They all land here, and you can add or remove your own.

312 photos from 48 guestsTraditional
Ask Soyayya

An assistant that knows your plan.

Ask in plain words. Soyayya checks your dates, budget and guest list before it answers — so suggestions actually fit.

Example questions
Soyayya assistant
Reading all three of your ceremonies
You asked: Find a photographer in Lagos under ₦800k
Soyayya answered:

Three photographers are free on Sat 12 Dec and fit your ₦800k photo line:

  • Jide Ojo Photography
    ★ 4.8 · from ₦650k
    Save
  • Lens & Lace Studio
    ★ 4.7 · from ₦720k
    Save
  • Visionary Films
    ★ 4.9 · photo + video from ₦780k
    Save
Vendor marketplace

Find your people. Save them in a tap.

Browse all vendors

Showing 4 featured vendors

  • Photographer

    Jide Ojo Photography

    LagosPrice tier 3 of 4Rated 4.8
  • Gele & makeup

    Gele by Tolu

    Port HarcourtPrice tier 3 of 4Rated 5.0
  • Caterer

    Abike's Cuisine

    AbujaPrice tier 2 of 4Rated 4.5
  • DJ

    DJ Spin-All

    LagosPrice tier 2 of 4Rated 4.7

Already have a tailor you love?

Add any vendor — contacts, photos and services — and keep them next to your saved list.

Add your own vendor
FAQ

Questions, answered.

Something else on your mind? Write to hello@soyayya.com

Is Soyayya free?

Yes — Soyayya is free to start. Checklist, budget, guest list and vendor browsing are all included, and you don't need a card to sign up.

Can I plan more than one ceremony?

That's the point. Add your introduction, court wedding, trad, white wedding or after-party — each gets its own budget, guest list, checklist and floorplan.

Can I add vendors who aren't on Soyayya?

Absolutely. Add any vendor with their contacts, photos and services, and they'll sit alongside the ones you've saved from the marketplace.

Can I bring in my existing guest list?

Yes. Import a CSV from Excel or Google Sheets, then track RSVPs, dietary needs and tables per ceremony. Export it again whenever you like.

How does the assistant use my data?

It reads your own plan — dates, budget, guests and saved vendors — to tailor its suggestions. It never messages vendors or guests on your behalf.

Let's get you to the aisle.

Set up your first ceremony in a few minutes. Free to start, no card needed.